Graduation 2022 - Kim Ridley's Remarks

Today I want you to consider how you will think about the choices you will make as you leave the familiarity of FSS and embark on your new journeys. There are several definitions of the word “Choice” or “Choices.” I much prefer this definition, which is “A range of possibilities from which one or more may be selected…” The reason why I like this definition is that it implies that complexity is embedded in the choices we make. And, of course, one cannot separate choices from impact, consequences, or outcomes. Every choice I make as a human being, partner, parent, friend, and HOS creates an impact—something happens as a result; someone is affected by my choice—and I have to ask myself, what do I want my impact to be? 

Now, and moving into the summer, I want you to consider the values you have learned here at FSS; values such as empathy, equity, curiosity, resourcefulness, self-compassion, gratitude, and the importance of what it means to feel a sense of belonging and connection. My hope for you is the foundation and values you learned here will guide you in the choices you make and that you are continuously aware of how your choices affect your life and the lives of others who you will meet. 

I will share with you for the last time my favorite poem, Blessings of the Boats by Lucille Clifton, from the book, Healing the Divide–Poems of Kindness and Connection. 

may the tide

that is entering even now

the lip of our understanding

carry you out

beyond the face of fear

may you kiss

the wind then turn from it

certain that it will

love your back     may you

open your eyes to water

water waving forever

and may you in your innocence

sail through this to that

This is not a goodbye, but until we meet again!

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